Kunyaza

 

If you followed my previous piece, Africa: Cradle of Love, you already know this is my big reveal (drum beats please).

My research into the subject of Kunyaza has revealed many enthusiasts who swear upon the effectiveness of this technique. Before the women jump up in protest about this being another male driven research that is designed to enhance the male image and boost his ego, I also happened to go to a lot of trouble, and not a little pain and embarrassment to interview some of my female friends, acquaintances and even a few strangers. Most of them had no clue what I was talking about but a few of them were wise to me.

Baganda Men

Almost all of the ones in the know tell me that they were introduced to the practice by partners from around the region mostly Uganda but also from Rwanda. According to these lucky few, women who have never experienced this technique are missing out in a big way. I turned my attention some of the few contacts I have in those places and I discover that this technique has been handed down from generation to generation mostly by oral tradition and Ssengas and Kojjas. Maybe this technique is the reason why our elders managed to marry many wives and succeeded in keeping them satisfied and in line.

Kunyaza

This is the name that our brothers and sisters in Rwanda and parts of Burundi know this technique by, Kunyaza. They literary swear by it! In Uganda it is known as Kakyabali (anglicized Kachabali) and it is alleged to make your female partner reach the big O everytime. Orgasms from this technique are reported to be more powerful and a lot wetter. In fact the Rwanda-Rundi term Kunyaza is boiled down from the verb Kunyaàra which means “to urinate” (remind you of a certain sheng word, “kunyora”, which means the same thing?) which gives one an idea of how wet these orgasms actually are. But don’t confuse what happens during Kunyaza as urinating, practitioners say that this is the real female ejaculation because the ejaculate does not have the consistency of water indicating urine nor does it have the odor of ammonia. It has a heavier viscosity and is cloudy to white with no odor, ohh la la!

So how exactly is this technique performed?

Tapping and Rubbing

Katerero and Kutunda as this technique is known in parts of Tanzania and Zimbabwe respectively is best performed with the couple in a sitting position as described by this technique’s most prominent proponent Dr. Nsekuye Bizimana in his revealing and enlightening book, Le secret de l’amour à l’africaine (2008).

According to Dr. Bizimana, Kunyaza, is best performed from a sitting position. The man takes hold of his penis, he then proceeds to rub and tap the head, glans, on the vulva, labia and clitoris of his partner. He can do this by moving rhythmically around the vulva in circular movements alternating that with zigzagging motions that begin from the clitoris over the labia and vulva and back up repeatedly.

It goes without saying that these movements will be greatly facilitated if there is sufficient lubrication. Note that up to this point there has been no penetration. This is just working her up. After she has began writhing and wriggling for a while you can alternate the rubbing and tapping with shallow thrusting movements termed gucuga. These shallow thrusts are designed to take advantage of the rich nerve area just a few centimeters in and around the vulva. Vary gucuga with gucumita, which are deeper thrusts caressing the cervix. You can do, for instance, one gucumita for every five gucuga, all the time making exaggerated circular motions against the vaginal walls using your middle and index finger to hold your penis to help you in this “screwing” (bad pun) motion.

If the man finds that his wrist or hand is getting tired the woman can take over and rub his penis against herself.

Dr. Bizimana advises that, although it is better that this technique be performed while the couple are sitting (the woman is sitting on the man’s lap) it can also be successful if the woman is sprawled on her back with the man kneeling between her legs (as in the beginning of the missionary position)

Some critiques of Dr.Bizimana insist that his adaptation of Kunyaza deviates from the traditional one by overlooking the labia elongation, gukuna, aspect of Kunyaza, which is considered intrinsic to it.

Experiment

Say what you will but form the sound of it this technique has potential. It has the advantage of hitting most of her “hot” zones without the risk of the man ejaculating prematurely. This technique might come off as being all about the woman but all that tapping, rubbing and gucuga are done using the head of the penis (glans), the most sensitive part of the penis, so men get prepared for “close calls” while doing this.

Having said that Kunyaza is supposed to be fun for the both of you and you should (especially the men) approach it with that attitude and not an attitude of “it sounds like too much work”.

Experiment with it then come thank me later. Tell us if all the hype and hullaballoo surrounding this technique is warranted.

When your woman refuses to let you out of the bedroom and when your man leaves your legs shaking then you know this technique has passed.

Next piece will be about gukuna, who does it? Where is it done? How it is done? Does it work? Also we shall look at if it is possible to increase the size of your manhood by simple exercises or if it’s all voices in your head.